Memorial keepsakes

Keepsakes let family members hold on to something personal. A few thoughtful choices usually mean more than many items.

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Key points

  • Agree as a family before dividing cremated remains among keepsakes.
  • For keepsakes that hold ashes, check how they seal and ask the funeral home if you'd like help filling them.
  • Many meaningful keepsakes — photos, recipes, a piece of clothing — cost nothing.

Keepsakes that hold cremated remains

Keepsake urns

Small urns, typically holding about 1 to 10 cubic inches, so several family members can each keep a portion. They're often sold in matching sets with a full-size urn. Check whether the lid screws on and whether a sealant is included.

Cremation jewelry

Pendants, rings or bracelets with a tiny sealed chamber for a pinch of ashes. Look for solid metal (stainless steel, sterling silver or gold) rather than plated, a threaded screw closure, and an included funnel or filling kit. Remove before swimming or showering unless the maker says otherwise.

Other items

Some specialty makers incorporate a small amount of ashes into glass, paintings or other art, typically through a mail-in process. If you consider this, ask how remains are tracked, returned and handled.

Keepsakes that don't hold remains

  • Memorial frames for a favorite photo, sometimes engraved with dates.
  • Memory boxes to keep cards, letters, the program and small objects together.
  • Memorial candles for anniversaries and holidays — battery candles are a safe option for unattended display.
  • Clothing keepsakes — pillows, quilts or teddy bears made from a loved one's shirts.
  • Garden memorials — stones, plaques or a tree.
  • Recipe books or handwriting — collecting recipes or letters in the person's own hand.

Browse keepsakes

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Keepsake urns

Small urns for sharing a portion of remains.

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Cremation jewelry

Prefer solid metal and screw closures.

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Memorial frames

Photo frames designed for remembrance.

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Memory boxes

To keep cards, letters and small mementos.

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See also: urn size calculator · how to choose an urn · personalizing a funeral